The thoughts of a bird, (Rant).
In these dark times, people show their true colours. you learn about their true character, and how strongly you truly are connected. regardless if it is by blood or by bond, weak links appear. and it is how we all deal with them that shows how much we value each other. avoiding, or becoming hostile shows major difficulties, divides in thought or action. it is how well the other takes advice, or information of your opinion that counts. so many people are realizing who they thought they were close to, are as distant as the moon is to earth. bridging that gap is hard, and sometimes they just choose to sevre that string. that is alright, because with that pruned, you can move on to bettering a different relationship, repairing a link that the cut thread left behind, your knowledge from that relationship remains. though sometimes it is hard to accept, some relationships should stay distant. if you cannot trust the individual, or you have cause to not put faith in them, it may be best to cut the tie. not always, just sometimes. if they talk down to you, or worse yet, talk up to you, then leave you behind in static silence, it is not always optimal to put yourself through that. step back, and realize good friends to not play with your heart. Truly good relationships benefit both parties. You can rely on eachother in your times of need, when you are exposed and venerable, at your worst. they should be able to help you through it, if not by advice, than by being there the best they can. they will never, ever be perfect, so do not expect that. they may say something that hurts you, and you should be ready for that. it is best to try and move on, not hold it against them and grow bitter. kindness is often appreciated, and is so scarce. understanding, and just choosing to show a soft heart often leads to good things. so many people are out there just for themselves, such as they forget who they may be without someone else to talk to, or to better express themselves. share knowledge, or just what you did the day prior. friendship is not a science, but a plant. you need to maintain it, preen off doubts, and water the pot to make sure it grows. never forget that they are people too, with their own lives, and friends. you are often not their only friend, nor their hobby. if you wish, you can try to engage with them about their hobby! if they like music, try to discuss bands, if they like games, maybe talk about them! they often will not bite you. just have faith, and confidence in yourself. do not feel bad if you have little in common, just discuss whatever. small things, serious things, your lives. not everyone likes mundane conversations, but as long as the bond is there, the friendship will stay strong. hold in there, everyone. this time will eventually pass, and we will all come out of this a changed person. for better, or for worse.
- Published July 30, 2020, 14:54
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