I'm currently struggling with a... somewhat serious matter. Since 8th grade, and at some point in 3rd, I wanted to go by male pronouns/ be male... took a while to choose my name which is Troy, but it was worth the time. I had a dream this morning where an old friend asked what my preferred pronouns were. I asked "What do you think?" as a joke. That got me thinking... for the second time. The first time was in June, where I officially came out as pansexual but where I also struggled with what pronouns I wanted, etc. I want to be Troy, using male pronouns... but I also want to be Nico, using they/them pronouns.. or nonbinary, rather... I'm genuinely confused and am not sure what to pick... any advice? Before I panic? pwp"