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Informational venting time with a lil mix of developmental psych, anyone? tw for mention of abuse but dw its not about me lol So my parents for the past few weeks (more so this week) have been really pushy to get stuff out of me, like- getting me to talk about my school, my life plans, my college updates, etc. and it pisses me off. In some ways, I assure myself its fine, I don’t like talking about that stuff, and most teens don’t either, but theres this other part of me that wonders why I don’t like it, since some days I mentally beg my parents to just ask something about me. Aaand psychology time. It’s theorized that if a child grows up in a certain environment, whether it is toxic or not, they grow comfortable to it, and if they leave that environment, they feel out of place. For example, a kid that has abusive parents that, say, they yell at their kid for screaming. Then, they go to school, they scream, and the teacher kindly asks the student to quiet down. No abuse, the child grows confused. Obviously, this study isn’t the same for everyone. But thinking about it, I grew up in my family with my parents constantly worried about their lives, my three older sisters’ college lives, and their organization they are leaders in. Of course I was not horribly neglected, but often I was left to just play on my own and stuff- my sibling that was still in my life was my age, and yk- siblings are annoying, i get it. But yeah so I have this whole like- not much interaction, left to my own devices kind of child. And now I’m being suddenly paid attention to, and its a lil freaky. Anyways woohooo, hope you liked your psych lesson, and remember that the brain is always malleable and it can always change with exposure therapy or just- healing, yahooo Hoodie out
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