@RainbowWolfie i used to be a huge introvert too, but what helps me? when you're feeling really shy *even tho you might feel stupid* just push it into being really energetic?? it's hard to explain I'm a generally pretty goofy person so that's probs just me
@xx_anxiety_xx i'm a big introvert and i only have like 3 friends i actually trust,but the thing is they are all extroverts so they have a lot more friends,everyone else is just acquaintances or are rude/mean or i don't know so if i get rid of one friend i only have 2 left,and 1 of those friends isnt as close to me because of a falling out
@RainbowWolfie and that's on periodt ! !! ! !! i used to be really scared of kicking people out of my life but now if i clearly see that you're being a toxic person, you're GONE. so far in the year i've gotten rid of about 5 different friend groups that were asshoelelslls
@RainbowWolfie OMG I FEEL THAT! !!! ! my *now ex* was hanging out with this chick behind my back who used to tell me to kill myself and constantly called me names and physically hurt me and then after my ex broke up with me she got back stabbed by her and was like: oh shit she's a horrible person people tell you you're wrong and then when you're right? come crying back to you
@xx_anxiety_xx yea irl(when we were not quarantined) my friends often came and complained to me even when i was upset and just wanted to rant to them.there was one girl who would always act spoiled but i did'nt say anything because she was a friend of my friend,it was only recently that my friend was like "yea she's kinda mean" and i was like "thanks for coming to that conclusion even after i told you four times" and i was just thinking in my mind "wtf you mean by 'kinda'?"
@RainbowWolfie i get that all the time!! for me it's people wanting me to be their therapist when they're too lazy to help themselves *both online and offline* it's draining
PhinSilver
all of the people who were my close friends don't really talk to me anymore. my closest friend is my little brother.PhinSilver
nobody texts me anywaysRainbowWolfie
@xx_anxiety_xx maybe just you,i haven't tried that and i can't try it now because of quarantinexx_anxiety_xx
@RainbowWolfie i used to be a huge introvert too, but what helps me?when you're feeling really shy *even tho you might feel stupid* just push it into being really energetic?? it's hard to explain
I'm a generally pretty goofy person so that's probs just me
RainbowWolfie
@xx_anxiety_xx i'm a big introvert and i only have like 3 friends i actually trust,but the thing is they are all extroverts so they have a lot more friends,everyone else is just acquaintances or are rude/mean or i don't know so if i get rid of one friend i only have 2 left,and 1 of those friends isnt as close to me because of a falling outxx_anxiety_xx
@RainbowWolfie and that's on periodt ! !! ! !!i used to be really scared of kicking people out of my life but now if i clearly see that you're being a toxic person, you're GONE.
so far in the year i've gotten rid of about 5 different friend groups that were asshoelelslls
RainbowWolfie
@xx_anxiety_xx it's like "i've known you since i was in 3rd grade,and you still believe her over me?" its so stupidxx_anxiety_xx
@RainbowWolfie OMG I FEEL THAT! !!! !my *now ex* was hanging out with this chick behind my back who used to tell me to kill myself and constantly called me names and physically hurt me
and then after my ex broke up with me she got back stabbed by her and was like: oh shit she's a horrible person
people tell you you're wrong and then when you're right? come crying back to you
RainbowWolfie
@xx_anxiety_xx yea irl(when we were not quarantined) my friends often came and complained to me even when i was upset and just wanted to rant to them.there was one girl who would always act spoiled but i did'nt say anything because she was a friend of my friend,it was only recently that my friend was like "yea she's kinda mean" and i was like "thanks for coming to that conclusion even after i told you four times" and i was just thinking in my mind "wtf you mean by 'kinda'?"xx_anxiety_xx
@xx_anxiety_xx when i offer that's one thingbut just randomly coming to me and complaining out of the blue
eeeh
xx_anxiety_xx
@RainbowWolfie i get that all the time!!for me it's people wanting me to be their therapist when they're too lazy to help themselves *both online and offline*
it's draining
RainbowWolfie
when i was at school the main reason people talked to me in certain subjects was because i'm good at them and they wanted to copy my papers