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okay so, tommorrow I'm going to the Islamic place of worship in my town to see how they worship because like, for the confirmation thing we want to look at other religions. but they've asked for the women to wear head coverings or at least have them. and like, i'm not a woman but i am afab and i do know that everyone's going to refer to me with she/her pronouns even though I HAVE PINS!! and THEY/HE IS NEXT TO MY NAME ON ZOOM!! and like, I just don't want to be disrespectful. also, I'm not passing but I'm very obviously not a girl. I think. I mean, my hair is a mess and definatley boys hair? maybe? but I can't wear a binder? because my ribs hurt way too f-ing much for that. and like, typically I wear colored jeans with a t-shirt? like, it's very obviously queer? maybe? so, what should I do? to clarify, most of my dysphoria is social. aka, like, what pronouns someone refers to me with and stuff. I don;t want to d things that are for girls/ also, I'm trying out xe/xem pronouns too, for anyone interested.
