i cant ever make anyone feel better abt something,,,,they always come to me telling me they relapsed and i say "im sorry. need some help?" and they say "yeah, but, your advice isnt the best" .... "how so?" i say. they reply. "it never helps, you always give bad advice that leads to worse situations. i've relapsed bc of you" .... "i'm sorry." i say quietly. "what would you like me to do?" they dont reply.