so rn my pronouns be they/him and i specifically dressed in a way that i think looks more masc and i was happy with it,and me,my grandpa and brother all went out to eat(just know the only people i'm out to are y'all and meh twin) and almost immediately i was called a she and i didn't really care,like it wasnt that bad but it still kinda upset me that i put some work into looking like a guy and then getting called the opposite but i can't really blame them since they didnt know,ya know?