now i do this thing where if someone is feeling bad i try to make a joke to lighten the mood but then after the joke i realize that was a really bad decision because i realize too late that the joke i made might have made them feel worse and i just uuuggghhh i dont feel good about it man, it makes me feel bad knowing i probably made their day worse but theres always a chance that i make their day better and i dont want to take that risk