Okay some back ground. Me and my friend, (Lets call them Furby) We both became friends around 19, but we knew we both existed around 2013 - 2015 my friend furby they have ADHD and all of that jazz, they want to do these things. (like Art/Photography/Coding/Ect) And i want to support them. but Furby doesn't really realize they needs critz to improve. they are shutting them selves away from all of that to "protect them selves". to me that is unhealthily. you need ctiz to live, you need to have it so you can improve they. every time i bring something up that bugs me. Furby goes off on me like " THIS IS WHO I AM AND IF YOU ARE GONNA BE MY FRIEND THAN ACCEPT THIS " and i'm done with that toxic bs. so i decided to tell them that this whole thing bugs me. and when they get back online i want them to read my "pms". and i am worried about them, and that they need this critz. i want them to realize and get that reality check and improve. they did improve over the years, but only in a couple of things, they are the same as they where back in 2015. it kills me to see them like this. they probs gonna go off on me like " why are you bringing this sht up again " and call me an arse. I don't want them to get this "reality check" when it is to late to fix it. I feel like i'm the asshole here for making them feel bad. i talk to some of my other friends and they agree i'm in the right. but it still bugs me. Am i the asshole? (I'll update when they pm me back)