Relationship advice:Toxicity
Hello my cute bees! Welcome back to my relationship series! Today I'll talk abt toxic relationships! Toxicity is dangerous and degrades you. Your mental health slowly fails and you start to break down. Toxic relationships turn you to either an pathetic sniveling victim like me or a snappy angry person who shuts off feelings and starts to numb you. Red flags are small spores of toxic mold but what heppens when it turns the relationship suffocatingly toxic? How do you tell if a relationship is toxic? Ask yourself: can you make a desicion on your own or do you feel like the other is constantly watching and controlling you and you can't choose anything on your own. Is the partner constantly putting weight on you, do you feel like your walking on eggshells when around them. Do you feel extremely tired or drained after speaking to them. Are they constantly trying to manipulate you. Do they ghost you often even though they can contact you if they want to. If your answer was yes to most of these then you are in a toxic relationship. I know it's a tough pill to swallow but it's true. The response you should expect would be similar to "oh man, I'm so sorry! I didn't know I was dumping all this toxic waste into your enviroment-what can I do to make us better?" you have successfully communicated that you were being harmed and they expressed that they want to help. But if they get defensive and end up dumping more toxicity into the relationship then we'll break things off. Breaking things off with a person can be tough but it's nessicary for you to be a better person as well as them. If your having troubles repeat what they do to hurt you in your head. They aren't good for you. Make sure you see a change in their behavior or attitude before giving them another chance
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